Always maintain a good appearance. Get a sense of style but don't go to the extreme. Always look your best and always have your teeth brushed, etc. You never know when the opportunity will take place so be ready and dressed nice. Wearing your old worn out grungy work clothes could be enough to ruin your confidence and your chances. Wear a nice pair of pants, nice shoes, and nice shirt.
Don't be afraid to set your sights high. if you think you're good enough for a girl, she will think you are, too. If you don't think you're good enough for a girl, then she probably won't think so, either. Hence, be confident. This shows other girls that you have good taste and that you're giving them a compliment just by talking to them.
Observe the guys that are getting attention at parties. Watch the way they keep their interest.
Relax, you must not overdo a play. Stop presenting yourself, and make her feel like she is presenting herself to you.
Learn to accept rejection. Rejection is part of the game and being rejected doesn't necessarily mean there's something wrong with you. Repeated rejections, however, should prompt you to evaluate yourself and look for changes.
Plan on where to meet. Grocery stores and gyms are great places to meet women. Laundromats are also a possibility. Bars are another place to find single women. Don't go to meet women at loud dance clubs. A nice sports bar is ideal.
Always be prepared. Talk to women wherever you go. It gives you practice and helps overcome the fears of talking to them.
