Always maintain a good appearance. Get a sense of style but don't go to the extreme. Always look your best and always have your teeth brushed, etc. You never know when the opportunity will take place so be ready and dressed nice. Wearing your old worn out grungy work clothes could be enough to ruin your confidence and your chances. Wear a nice pair of pants, nice shoes, and nice shirt.
Don't be afraid to set your sights high. if you think you're good enough for a girl, she will think you are, too. If you don't think you're good enough for a girl, then she probably won't think so, either. Hence, be confident. This shows other girls that you have good taste and that you're giving them a compliment just by talking to them.
Observe the guys that are getting attention at parties. Watch the way they keep their interest.
Relax, you must not overdo a play. Stop presenting yourself, and make her feel like she is presenting herself to you.
Learn to accept rejection. Rejection is part of the game and being rejected doesn't necessarily mean there's something wrong with you. Repeated rejections, however, should prompt you to evaluate yourself and look for changes.
Plan on where to meet. Grocery stores and gyms are great places to meet women. Laundromats are also a possibility. Bars are another place to find single women. Don't go to meet women at loud dance clubs. A nice sports bar is ideal.
Always be prepared. Talk to women wherever you go. It gives you practice and helps overcome the fears of talking to them.
Smile. Show those pearly whites all day, every day. Smiles are infectious.
Do not focus on the target first if she is with friends. Make friends with her friends, so they do not think you are just some creep trying to get laid (especially if you are). Then, after you have sufficiently impressed the group, you can start to talk to the target girl. Women often talk about men they like when you are not there.
Make a connection. Try and find out what this person really loves in the world, and let her tell you all of the things she loves about it. Then, tell her you feel just the same way about some things, but disagree with her opinions on other things. For instance, "Yeah, I really like Van Gogh too, but Monet is much too simplistic." Make her get involved in a conversation.
If you have your girl off to the side at a party or bar, and there is any period of silence (>3 seconds), remain confident. Showing fear at an awkward moment can hurt your whole credibility
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